Season 1: State v Steffen Baldwin / Episode 1: Remi
Season 1: State v Steffen Baldwin / Episode 1: Remi
Steffen Baldwin gained popularity in the State of Ohio as a "dog savior", proclaiming that he could rehabilitate and rehome any dog, including those deemed dangerous and not adoptable. He spent years sharing his "success" stories, but the truth was revealed when one of his victims, Litsa Kargakos, discovered his horrific scheme which claimed the lives of many dogs and hurt the people who cared about them.
In Episode One, Dr. G and Litsa share the story of Remi, his fate, and how it started a long court battle against Baldwin.
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Hi, and welcome to the Animal Welfare Junction.
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:This is your host, Dr.
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:G.
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:And our music is written and
produced by Mike Sullivan.
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:So this is episode one of our
season one series, State of
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:Ohio versus Steffen Baldwin.
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:And this episode is named Remi, which is
appropriate since Remi was the catalyst
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:that started this whole investigation.
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:So to our listeners, this series is
gonna talk about sensitive topics such
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:as animal abuse and domestic violence.
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:So please take care of yourself and if
any part of this podcast is hard for you
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:to listen, take a break, and come back.
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:Or just hit the fast forward button.
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:Now don't be worried because
you're not gonna be caught by
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:surprise with these topics.
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:We will have a warning ahead.
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:So, um, I wanna introduce you
to our first guest, which is
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:Litsa, who was Remi's owner.
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:Thank you for being here, Litsa.
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:Litsa Kargakos: My name is Litsa Kargakos.
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:Um, I've been involved in
animal rescue since I was a
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:child in some form or another.
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:What got us heavily involved with having
our own rescue was a dog named Petey, and
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:he was a pit bull American bulldog mix.
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:Um, he was, when he was seized in an
abuse case, he was heartworm positive.
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:He was completely emaciated.
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:His muzzle was duct taped
when they seized him.
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:So, needless to say, he
had some behavior issues.
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:Um, we went to Animal Charity.
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:They were, they had seized 130 little
dogs and we went to just make a donation.
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:And I see this dog and his, he had, they
have a funnel to feed him because nobody
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:could, there were only two people that
could handle him from what we were told.
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:Um, it had a sign, they had a shot,
clear shower curtain over his like, run.
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:And they had a sign that said,
do not touch heartworm positive.
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:Um, so I promised this dog that I was
gonna get him out and out of like,
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:everybody was going into all these little
dogs and they had pit bull puppies.
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:And of course, I'm attracted to this dog.
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:This is the dog that I wanna help.
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:And I leave there in tears and I tell
my husband, I gotta save this dog.
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:He's like, how the hell are we
gonna save this dog when nobody
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:could even get near this dog?
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:I'm like, I don't know.
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:I'll figure it out, but I promised him.
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:He's like, this dog has no
idea what you promised him.
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:We have no way of getting this dog.
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:What are we gonna do with him?
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:So fast forward a whole bunch of
red tape and begging and pleading.
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:I emailed rescues literally all across
the country, and at this point I already
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:had like a few thousand dollars in pledges
from people that were willing to go
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:ahead and donate if he was saved for his
heartworm treatment and things like that.
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:I had a really, really
hard time finding a rescue.
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:Um, we did pull him and I told the
rescue to sign him over to me as soon
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:as we leave the building, you know,
I'll accept all liability on this dog.
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:And he, he took to me instantly.
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:He like, let me rub his belly.
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:He just, I think he figured I'm the only
one that was getting him outta there.
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:Um, it took my husband though two
months, literally two months of going
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:to see this dog every single day,
'cause we did put him in boarding,
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:um, for probably about two months.
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:A friend of mine owns a local
pet resort and she had him in a
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:run that was off from everything.
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:And two of the girls there were
fine, absolutely fine with him.
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:He seemed to do a little bit better with
women, especially a little bit smaller.
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:He didn't like anybody that was loud or
large, I think because of his history.
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:So this dog ended up becoming
like for us, the best dog that
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:you could possibly ask for.
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:He loved everybody in the house.
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:He loved the dogs, he loved the cats.
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:And that was kind of like such an
eyeopener for me, how there's not a lot
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:of rescues that wanna commit to these
dogs that need a little bit of work.
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:So that's where my passion with
dogs that weren't easily adoptable,
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:really, really came from.
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:DrG: That's awesome because it
takes a special kind of person
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:to adopt these, these dogs.
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:Right?
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:And one of the things that I, that I
don't like about some organizations
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:is that they want to get these
dogs that need work to people that
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:are not properly prepared to it.
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:And you have to be the right
home, the right environment.
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:If not, it can be a complete disaster.
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:Litsa Kargakos: Oh, absolutely.
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:Yeah.
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:Yeah.
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:DrG: Like how do you manage having, having
multiple dogs that need special care?
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:Litsa Kargakos: Um, I mean,
it depends on the situation.
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:We don't any dog that we've ever pulled,
when we had our rescue, we never pulled
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:more than we knew that if we had to care
for and keep them for life, it was fine.
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:Like when Petey was in boarding,
we had somebody who was interested.
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:He was a single guy, he was a smaller guy.
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:He spoke very softly.
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:He would've been, you know, a good
home that we thought for Petey.
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:And when I saw Petey's reaction, like
he was okay for a short period of time
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:with him, and then I saw his personality
change and right there I knew that I would
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:never be comfortable putting Petey in
a home with anybody else regardless how
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:much he flourished, you know, in a year.
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:If he was a different dog, I
wasn't comfortable with it.
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:Um, so it kind of just catered to
every dog based on their needs.
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:So we had quite a few dogs that
were just very confident dogs.
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:They were very mellow dogs.
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:If a dog reacted towards
them, they were non-reactive.
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:And I honestly have to say that
was probably the biggest benefit to
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:us bringing those type of dogs in.
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:It was almost like the dogs that had
suffered, you know, this horrendous
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:abuse, they kind of fed off of what the
other dogs were, the vibes that they were
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:putting out and you know, what they were
feeding from, what they were telling 'em.
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:And, you know, their language, their
body language, things like that.
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:But that's what I play a big part to it.
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:Don't get me wrong, we've had
dogs that haven't gotten along.
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:Um, have we had dog fights?
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:We have.
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:We've had a handful.
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:Um, we were always there, thank God.
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:Um, we separated, you know,
the dogs that we needed to.
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:At one point we had six crates in
the house, so we always did what
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:we had to do to keep them safe.
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:Um, the one dog, my Lily,
she was one of my pities from
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:California, she hated Toula.
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:Toula was a Sharpei Shepherd mix and.
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:She was like my soul dog.
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:This dog was just, she was so
bad, but not like aggressive,
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:bad, just like destructive, bad.
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:And any barrier that you put up, she got
through, like it was a challenge for her.
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:Lily was fine with her for
the six, for six months.
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:And then one day I am laying in my bed
and I'm running my bath water and it's
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:like, who's gonna get closest to mom?
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:And a fight broke out
and Angelo wasn't home.
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:I'm like, oh my God, how am
I gonna break these dogs up?
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:And ones 65 pounds, one is 75 pounds.
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:I'm by myself.
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:I grabbed a fire extinguisher and I
was able to, you know, get them apart.
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:Toula rushed her to the vet.
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:She got stitches, um, a
couple drainage tubes.
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:Thank God she was okay.
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:But long story short, we
learned from every incident
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:and we always made it better.
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:So even when Toula went in her
crate, Lily would go after her.
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:So then we got like a training
gate and we put around the crate
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:when Toula was in her crate.
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:We had a gate up in the
middle of our living room.
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:Me and Angelo slept separate for 10 years.
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:He took Lily to bed.
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:I took Toula to bed.
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:We did whatever we had to do
to keep these animals safe.
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:Cause getting rid of an animal once
I accept responsibility and they're
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:my personal dogs, I can't do that.
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:I don't believe in that.
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:It's like a kid, if you have a child,
in my opinion that you know, has
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:some behavior issues that has, you
know, a handicap, you're not just
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:gonna go ahead and get rid of 'em.
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:So we just modify our lives for them.
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:DrG: Yeah, that's something important
of people to also, when they're taking
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:these animals and thinking, I'm gonna
foster them and I'm gonna find them a
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:home, that that is a possibility that
you get stuck with that dog forever
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:and you have to be prepared for that.
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:You have to, to plan ahead of
what's gonna happen if you cannot
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:find that perfect home for them.
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:Litsa Kargakos: You do, you do.
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:Like we were, um, fostering one dog that
we pulled another pittie from California.
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:We actually pulled him and Lily
at the same time, which this is
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:gonna kind of tie into Steffen
and the whole California thing.
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:But he was super, super cat aggressive.
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:We fostered him.
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:We always made sure he wasn't in the
same room with the cats like he would
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:get so worked up his nose would bleed
from his anxiety if the cat was near him.
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:So we knew if we couldn't find
the perfect home for this dog.
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:And he didn't like other dogs.
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:Well, he was, I shouldn't say
he didn't like, he was very
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:selective with other dogs.
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:Like he liked Lily.
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:He was fine with Lily, they suspect he
was a previous fighting dog in California.
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:So there were different triggers with dogs
that he'd accept and he wouldn't accept.
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:So we needed to find a house that had
no cats and a house that had no dogs.
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:If not, we knew again, we'd
have to accommodate our lives.
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:So what are we gonna do to go ahead
and make sure that the cats are
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:safe and that the dogs are safe?
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:And luckily we found him an amazing
home with an amazing couple.
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:And he just passed away
about a year ago from cancer.
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:So he had a really good life.
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:He was their first baby.
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:DrG: So, let's talk about our boy Remi.
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:So when did you become aware of him?
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:Litsa Kargakos: I became aware of Remi
from some volunteers had reached out
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:from Trumbull County Pound, and they
told me that the warden at the time had
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:it out for the volunteers and that she
wanted to go ahead and make an example
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:of the dogs there to show the volunteers.
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:It was her pound and she
could do what she wants.
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:There was, she was a very,
very difficult woman.
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:She was a breeder, which to me
is completely hypocritical in the
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:position of being a dog warden.
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:Like there's all these dogs that are
strays, that people have abandoned.
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:And then you're breeding
dogs on the other hand.
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:So.
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:I probably disliked the woman right
from that point when I found out.
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:But a bunch of volunteers had
spoken up because they were actually
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:euthanizing dogs on the pound floor
and they weren't certified to do so,
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:and they weren't doing it properly.
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:And these dogs were suffering for
like five and six hours and they
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:had the public coming through and
they were throwing sheets out of
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:over these dogs as they were dying.
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:So she was just a terrible,
terrible woman in my opinion.
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:And she was mad at the volunteers because
they took it to the media and they had
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:to do things a little bit different.
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:They had to take it to a licensed
vet to be euthanized then.
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:And Remi was one of the examples
that she wanted to make.
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:And he did bite somebody there.
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:But it was, it wasn't Remi's fault.
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:I don't blame Remi in the least.
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:None of the volunteers blamed Remi.
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:They knew he was a resource guarder.
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:He was marked as a resource guarder.
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:DrG: Can you really quick, I don't
know that our, our audience necessarily
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:knows what resource guarding means.
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:Sure.
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:Can you explain what that means?
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:Litsa Kargakos: Sure.
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:It's basically anything that they
fixate on that they feel is theirs.
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:Um, whether it's a couch that they're
laying on, whether it's a toy that they
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:feel that they want, it's theirs, and
getting it from them or getting them
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:to surrender it is usually a challenge.
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:So if he felt the couch was his
and he was resource guarding that
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:you weren't going on that couch.
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:So he, um, but he had a Kong in
his crate with, I don't, I, I
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:believe he had peanut butter in it.
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:And somebody who was doing their
community service put their hand
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:in to get this Kong while he was
in his crate, and he reacted.
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:But it was literally a drag bite.
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:It wasn't, it, I don't
even think it punctured.
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:I saw pictures of it.
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:It literally, the cat scratch is
much worse than what Remi did.
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:So that gave her the fuel to go ahead and
say, Hey, I'm gonna euthanize this dog.
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:And she was able to justify it with that.
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:So that's when the volunteers
reached out, was after that incident.
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:They explained the bite to me.
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:I wasn't hesitant when I saw the bite.
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:I understood, I was a well
aware resource guarding.
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:We've worked with dogs
that had resource guarding.
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:It's common with rescue dogs.
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:Um, so fast forward we ended up hiring
an attorney to get this dog out because
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:the warden was not giving Remi up.
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:He, she was adamant she was
gonna go ahead and euthanize.
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:And I told the attorney,
do what you gotta do.
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:Put a stay order.
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:We will take this to court.
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:We'll do what we have to do.
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:I want to save this dog.
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:So she was able to get him released.
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:Um, it, but it came with terms, which
was deeming him as a dangerous dog.
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:DrG: And what does that mean?
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:When a dog is deemed a
dangerous dog in Ohio?
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:Litsa Kargakos: It requires
additional liability insurance.
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:The dog has to be muzzled
anytime that they're outside.
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:They have to be, I believe it's a
six or eight foot fence at all times.
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:There has to be, some
areas have to be covered.
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:There's a whole list of
restrictions that we had to follow.
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:They have to be, if you walk
them, you can't walk them
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:with like a material leash.
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:It has to be, um, stainless
steel or metal leash.
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:There were, there were a lot
of things that made it hard on
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:dogs that didn't justify it.
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:And getting a dangerous dog
ordinance removed is difficult.
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:DrG: So had you met Remi before you
started this whole attorney thing?
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:Litsa Kargakos: Nope.
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:They wouldn't even let me meet him.
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:DrG: So how, you know, so you
get Remi and then what was
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:your first impression of him?
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:Litsa Kargakos: He was a
gorgeous, beautiful dog.
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:His tail was waggin'.
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:He was a happy boy.
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:I mean, initially you could tell
he just wanted out of there.
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:He was like, get me the hell outta here.
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:Um, and then when we brought
him home, we had an area set
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:up in the basement for him.
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:Again, we didn't know if he was cat
reactive, if he was dog reactive.
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:He showed no reaction at the pound.
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:But once he came into home, different
sounds, different, you know,
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:smells, different, things like that.
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:We weren't sure.
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:So we had an indoor pen in the
basement and we had a kuranda bed,
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:blankets, you know, all that stuff
for him until he got neutered.
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:And we were able to go ahead and
work him in with our, with our life.
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:He got neutered, I wanna say, I
don't know, less than a week later.
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:Um, we had the gastropexy done on him.
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:We got him neutered.
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:And probably within two weeks you
just saw like a huge difference.
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:Like when we first got him, he
was urinating on the blankets
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:every time I changed them.
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:So like four or five times a day
we were putting fresh blankets,
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:sanitizing the floor down there.
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:And within two weeks
that all started to stop.
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:And then you started to
see Remi's personality, his
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:true personality come out.
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:And he was, he was a trip.
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:He was a happy go lucky dog.
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:He was very appreciative and grateful
for everything that you gave him.
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:Um, he loved toys, he loved his blankets.
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:He loved fluff his blankets
before he'd lay down.
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:He, he was a good boy.
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:He, he was a good boy.
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:He showed zero reaction towards the cats.
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:He showed zero reaction towards the dogs.
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:He was like, just in his own happy world.
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:DrG: So how long did you have him before
you decided that, that he needed more
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:work than what you were doing with him?
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:Litsa Kargakos: It wasn't really
even the work, because we were
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:working with Jenny, who I know you're
gonna interview, um, down the road,
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:and we worked through his issues.
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:Steffen had happened to come
over for an appointment that
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:we had set because we believed
everything we saw on social media.
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:You know, this guy's a
miracle work group dog.
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:He's the dog whisperer, and we
had taken Lily to Jenny and I
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:thought, you know what, maybe
there's like a different approach.
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:Maybe there's something that we're not
doing to get these two dogs to get along.
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:So he, we had scheduled him like
a month or two prior before even
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:knowing that Remi existed to come for
Toula and Lily and he had so happened
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:to come shortly after we got Remi.
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:And he came in the Remi, it was
actually within that first week,
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:'cause Remi was still in the basement.
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:And he went down and he met him and
he's like, yeah, he is, no problem.
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:And he gave us a list for Toula and
Lily of, um, the rating, like how you
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:could tell when a dog is super mad,
like that color coded one, which is,
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:I mean like, come on, like Google
gives you more information than that.
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:It, I, it, there wasn't much,
the visit wasn't long, but that's
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:where everything started with Remi.
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:That's where he told us, we were talking
about the, um, dangerous dog designation.
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:And you know, if Remi got to point that
he was, that we were able to work past
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:all of these resource guarding issues and
things like that, how difficult is it to
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:have a dangerous dog designation removed?
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:And then that's where
the conversation started.
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:Normally it's extremely
difficult, but I can do it.
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:And he made his offer, which was
if we gave him a thousand dollars.
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:Because he was the county Humane agent.
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:He can have it removed in Union County.
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:DrG: And that was the,
the whole thing, right?
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:Like his position of authority and
his position within the Union County
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:government, that that's what allowed
him to do something like this that
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:would otherwise be very difficult.
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:Litsa Kargakos: Absolutely.
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:And I mean, I guess looking back now,
being naive with the situation, 'cause
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:I never had a dangerous dog before.
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:I believed him.
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:I di I wasn't aware that
it had to go to court.
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:I thought, okay, he's the humane agent.
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:You p you petition the county
and this is just removed.
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:And that's the way that he portrayed
it when he presented it to us.
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:That's exactly how he made it sound.
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:This dog's gonna come to Union
County, I'm gonna go ahead and
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:I'm gonna get this removed.
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:I didn't even know if like just
him being a humane agent, if
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:that's how it's just removed.
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:Like if he can just remove it on his own.
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:And I said to him, I'm like, are you
sure that you can do that that easy?
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:He said, yes, it's my county.
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:Which again, he literally
said those words.
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:And again, I'm thinking, okay,
this guy can have it removed.
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:Like it was never a question.
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:It never dawned on me that this was a
scam, that he couldn't have it removed.
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:Like where would somebody
even think of that?
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:Like I had no reason not to believe it.
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:DrG: So what was, so you had
to pay him to get it removed.
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:Did you have to pay him anything
else for either training or
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:boarding or anything like that?
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:Litsa Kargakos: No.
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:The deal was that he said Remi had to go
under him so that he can go ahead and get
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:it removed because he had to be a resident
of Union County, basically Remi to go
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:ahead and have it removed in Union County.
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:And we paid him the thousand dollars he
was gonna get the designation removed.
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:He said he had a huge network.
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:He even mentioned his buddy Gordon
Shell, he said, you know, he had
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:a lot of connections in Michigan
and that Michigan didn't recognize
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:dangerous dog designations from Ohio.
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:He said, so if we, whatever comes
first, if we can find a great home
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:for him in Michigan, if we can
find, you know, phenomenal adopter
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:out of state or getting it removed.
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:But he said what's gonna probably
happen soon is, is get the designation
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:removed and once it got removed, if
he didn't have an adopter lineup,
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:Remi was supposed to come back to us.
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:DrG: Yeah, that's what I was gonna ask.
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:Kind of like what were the, what
was the setup of the arrangement
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:or what was the arrangement?
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:So, you know, he's going to find him
a home, he's gonna bring him back once
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:the designation is gone so that you
can either keep him or adopt him out.
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:Litsa Kargakos: Yeah, it was exactly,
you know what I had just said that either
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:he was gonna find him a forever home.
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:And I, I questioned him.
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:I'm like, why?
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:I wanna vet these people if you
find him a home, because I've had
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:this dog in my home for four months.
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:We, you know, we fell
in love with this dog.
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:He was already integrated in the home.
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:Like, it wasn't the only reason that
Remi went, and I, I hate to say this
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:because this sounds, I don't know,
I guess it could be interpreted in
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:a multitude of ways, but if Remi was
an asshole, we would've kept him.
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:If he was a jerk, we would've kept him.
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:Like Dingo, our one
dog, he's batshit crazy.
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:He was gonna be put down at Animal
Charity like eight, nine years ago.
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:Multiple rescues went into pull
this dog, they weren't comfortable
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:giving them to any of the rescues.
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:Um, we went in and they thought
that I was crazy when I went in, but
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:this dog, they had him from a puppy.
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:They had him, um, Dingo, from four
months old, and he would lunge at
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:people and, you know, four months old.
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:Okay, no big deal.
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:But then you have, you know, 60
pound shepherd mix lunging at people.
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:It's not cute anymore.
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:So they try to go ahead and
euthanize him on the down low.
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:And one of the employees there
actually spoke up and put up a post.
407
:And when I went to meet this dog, I can
see it was all fear-based, and Jenny
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:actually had recommended that he be
euthanized, but she recommended if he had
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:to stay in that environment because it
was not good for his mental wellbeing.
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:It was, he was not thriving there.
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:He was regressing, he
was doing terrible there.
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:So when we went to meet him, my first
reaction was, this dog is scared.
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:I wanna see what his
reaction is, if he bites.
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:So I went in, my husband stood to
the side and two people from Animal
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:Charity, um, we're like up, the
one girl was able to handle 'em.
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:The one lady wasn't, but she was
the one that set up the meeting.
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:And I pulled up my arm from my
hoodie and I put just my sleeve
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:down to see what it would do.
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:And he bit my sleeve and he looked at
me because he didn't get the reaction
420
:that he was anticipating that he'd
gotten for, what he was four months
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:when they got him, I think, and
he was like a year at this point.
422
:So eight months he'd bite.
423
:People would, you know, run away
or he'd lunge and they'd run away.
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:He didn't actually bite
anybody at that point.
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:So when I, he made the eye contact
with me, he ran back to the girl that
426
:he was okay with and sat next to her
and just looked at her like, oh shit.
427
:So Dingo was the dog that we knew he
was never gonna be able to be adopted.
428
:He was, when we adopted him,
we adopted him to personally
429
:keep him because he is a jerk.
430
:And to this day, like
he's, he is phenomenal.
431
:He is such a good boy.
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:I could do anything to Dingo.
433
:I mean, I'll give him a Cytopoint shots.
434
:I clean his ears, I do his nails.
435
:Anything that I need to
do to this dog, he's fine.
436
:He is good with the cats, he is
good with everybody, but strangers,
437
:he just doesn't like strangers.
438
:So we always make sure we
never set him up for failure.
439
:When people come over, he either
comes upstairs and gets locked
440
:up or he goes in his crate.
441
:I'm not doing that to another human and
I'm not putting him in his situation.
442
:But Remi was never that dog.
443
:Remi was people friendly.
444
:Like we had the dog sitter came in
within the first week of us having
445
:Remi because we didn't plan on
getting Remi and they wouldn't even
446
:tell us when we were getting him.
447
:They were like, you have 24 hours to come
pick up this dog, or you have till the
448
:end of day like something crazy to come
get this dog or we're euthanizing him.
449
:So it was very unexpected and we had
plans to go away for Ohio Bike week.
450
:So that was another reason of the outdoor
pen, 'cause I didn't want the dog sitter
451
:to be like in a small area with a dog
that we weren't that familiar with.
452
:Then she works at the pet resort that
I had said my friend owns, so she's,
453
:you know, very familiar with different
behaviors of dogs and, but he was
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:fine with her even from the beginning.
455
:So Remi was never a dog once
you met him, that you would've
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:felt was ever be unadoptable.
457
:That's one of the reasons that we
agreed to send him to re to Steffen
458
:because he deserved a home of his own.
459
:DrG: And did he say about how long
the whole process was gonna take?
460
:Litsa Kargakos: He didn't he, he did not.
461
:He'd never put a timeline from
just like key words and the
462
:way the conversation went.
463
:I didn't expect it to be too
long, but he, he never gave like
464
:a definitive time and he always
made it sound like he was so busy.
465
:Like when he would reply to messages,
oh, I'm so busy, I'll get back to you.
466
:You know, I'm have so many humane cases
and believing what I saw on social media.
467
:I believed this.
468
:I believed, okay, this
guy is super overwhelmed.
469
:He's out there saving dogs.
470
:He's out there taking dogs
outta bad situations, you know,
471
:pulling dogs from kill shelters.
472
:Like Remi is fine.
473
:He is, I thought he was living
in his house and you know, no big
474
:rush when he gets to it, you know?
475
:And then we start reaching out
and the conversations got fewer
476
:and longer gaps in between.
477
:And then he just stopped replying.
478
:DrG: So when, let's talk about when
he, like, did he come to get him
479
:or did you take him to his house?
480
:Litsa Kargakos: We met halfway.
481
:My husband, I was at work and my husband
met him halfway, I think in Canton.
482
:I think in Canton it was.
483
:DrG: And about when, when did that happen?
484
:Litsa Kargakos: That was September 9th.
485
:DrG: And this is 2016, right?
486
:Litsa Kargakos: Yes.
487
:Of 16.
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:DrG: So he has, he has Remi.
489
:You said the communications
little by little got got worse.
490
:So how, how was it at first?
491
:Was he sending you pictures?
492
:Was he sending you
videos or what was that?
493
:What was that like?
494
:Litsa Kargakos: Both.
495
:He sent videos of him
skateboarding with Remi.
496
:He sent videos of Remi in
the yard with his other dogs.
497
:Remi looked happy in all of the
pictures that he sent in the beginning.
498
:I thought, you know what?
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:I made the right decision
because we cried.
500
:Even my husband cried
so hard letting Remi go.
501
:And again, he was such, he was a good
dog and, like, I can't tell you like the
502
:nightmares that I had going back to the
one video the day that Remi left, because
503
:he has his front paws on my husband.
504
:He's looking at him in his eyes and
then my husband called me and he's
505
:like, I don't know if I could do this.
506
:He's like, I don't think I could take him.
507
:He's like, I don't think
I could let him go.
508
:And we're both bawling.
509
:And I'm like, I love you so much.
510
:And then Kelly, who was the one that
watched him that um, also worked at
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:the pet resort, she's like, you know,
he's this amazing, you know, trainer.
512
:He is this amazing guy.
513
:He's gonna find Remi a home of his own.
514
:Because in my mind I'm like, okay,
worst thing that's gonna happen to
515
:Remi here is he's gonna have to be
created all day when we go to work.
516
:But Remi was a good dog.
517
:Like he didn't destroy anything.
518
:He didn't get into anything
and he didn't deserve that.
519
:And I felt bad for that.
520
:And little did I know it was gonna happen.
521
:DrG: So when would you say that the
communication started getting really bad?
522
:Litsa Kargakos: It was December, because
I was actually off for two weeks for
523
:Christmas and New Year's, and I was
adamant that I wanted to go see Remi
524
:and I wasn't getting any response.
525
:I was like, "Hey, I'm off two weeks
when I come, can I come down?"
526
:And we were supposed to go down earlier.
527
:We're supposed to go down.
528
:Well first my husband was supposed
to go down a week after we got Remi.
529
:And up until the night before,
Steffen was like, yeah, we're on.
530
:You know, this and that.
531
:My husband was gonna go
spend the weekend there.
532
:And then he didn't reply.
533
:We heard nothing from him.
534
:Well then that's when he was doing that
whole thing with Gordon Shell in Michigan.
535
:And then he was like,
oh, something came up.
536
:And again, you know, super busy.
537
:So we didn't know if it had
something to do with that.
538
:So then I said, okay,
when can we come see 'em?
539
:And he said, well, you could come,
I forgot what weekend it was, but
540
:it was within the first month.
541
:And I said, well, we're bringing two dogs
from California, which were another two.
542
:Um, we brought Lonnie and Daisy.
543
:From California and I said, well,
that weekend's not gonna work
544
:because these dogs are coming
on transport from California.
545
:I said, how about the following weekend?
546
:He is like, oh, I'm gonna be outta town,
but I can have him out in the barn.
547
:And I said, I don't wanna
see him out in the barn.
548
:I said, I wanna see him in your house.
549
:I wanna see how he's interacting
with your dogs, how he's
550
:interacting with you, your son.
551
:Like I wanna make sure that he's okay.
552
:He's like, okay, we'll
set something up soon.
553
:And then that was pretty much it.
554
:And then at Christmas I reached
out multiple times to try to go
555
:see Remi and I got no response.
556
:And then when I finally had had enough
'cause I contacted the dog warden, I
557
:contacted the commissioners, I contacted
the sheriff and asked him to do a welfare
558
:check on this dog, like everybody humanly
possible that I thought that can help
559
:and make sure that this dog was okay.
560
:And I called the dog warden's office.
561
:We found out that he hadn't gotten
any dog licenses, and that was a
562
:huge other concern for me because
if Remi is not registered with his
563
:dangerous dog designation, can that
be something that they could come
564
:take him and euthanize him for?
565
:Because you have to make sure that you're,
you know, that's a big thing in the state.
566
:They have to know if you move with a
dangerous dog where you're moving, where
567
:this dog is staying, like constant, kind
of like a, I guess, a human on parole.
568
:Like you kind of always have to check
in with the county and let them know.
569
:And when Steffen took Remi, I had to write
a letter to the county and let them know,
570
:Hey, this dog is now in Union County.
571
:Um, so it was just, it, it
was downhill from that point.
572
:And I made all these calls
and nobody wanted to help.
573
:So I was like, all right,
what am I gonna do now?
574
:I need to make sure this dog's okay.
575
:So I had, I.
576
:And I, I was messaging him
and telling him that, Hey, I'm
577
:reaching out to the commissioners.
578
:Hey, like, I didn't do this
stuff behind anybody's back.
579
:And then at one point I said
to him, um, I can't, I think
580
:it was with the commissioners.
581
:I think that was the conversation that
I had texted him and said, Hey, I'm
582
:reaching out to the commissioners.
583
:And he called me and he
called me while I was at work.
584
:And I'll never forget this conversation
because he didn't call very frequently.
585
:But right after I sent him
a message, it triggered him.
586
:And I'd have to go through my messages.
587
:'cause it's, it's been so long now, like
sometimes the order gets a little bit, I
588
:have to revisit it, but I wanna say I'm
99% sure it was after the message with
589
:the commissioners that he had called.
590
:And he said that he was going through
all kind of stuff and he's not posting
591
:this on social media, but he's gone
through this terrible depression because
592
:the girl who he had started his rescue
with, um, Shelby had gotten killed.
593
:And it was her, I think he
said her one year anniversary.
594
:And I have messages like with
a lot of the context from the
595
:conversation and in so many words,
I said, I'm not trying to sound un
596
:unempathetic, but I really don't care.
597
:I wanna know how the dog is, how is Remi?
598
:And he told me he was doing great.
599
:He told me he was living in a foster home
with somebody who was a volunteer at ACT.
600
:And I said, okay, give her
my contact information.
601
:I wanna see Remi, I wanna see
pictures, I wanna do a FaceTime.
602
:I need to know this dog is okay.
603
:And he said, well, she's
not talking to me right now.
604
:I was like, she has a dog
that's still under act.
605
:Like what do you mean
she's not talking to you?
606
:How do you have one of your dogs out
there that you don't check in on?
607
:So that was like a huge red flag
to me because when we had dogs and
608
:fosters, I mean, multiple times
a week we checked on these dogs.
609
:We provided them with their food,
with their toys, their treats.
610
:Like we did everything, even when
dogs got adopted, like I always
611
:checked in with the adopters.
612
:I'm still in contact with the dogs that
are still alive that we adopted out, um,
613
:you know, with their adoptive families.
614
:So that was like, what
do, what do you mean?
615
:Like that just that
didn't set right with me?
616
:And he said, yeah, she's mad at me
because they put in all this work
617
:and we put up all this fencing
and now I have to dissolve ACT.
618
:And they feel like all their
work didn't mean anything.
619
:I said, I don't care.
620
:I said, that is ACT's dog.
621
:You need to get me a
meeting with that dog.
622
:I wanna make sure he is okay.
623
:And he's like, okay.
624
:He's like, I'll email her.
625
:And then he said she doesn't
have a computer, she doesn't
626
:do a lot on a computer.
627
:So like, what do we need to do?
628
:Like send a pigeon in there, like what?
629
:Whatever it is, I need to
know where this dog is.
630
:Give me her address, I'll contact
or whatever we have to do.
631
:DrG: And then, and this was
through January or into February?
632
:Or is it about when?
633
:Litsa Kargakos: This would've been in
634
:fe It was in February.
635
:'cause in March I had finally had enough.
636
:So in March was like, I have to
find out what happened to this dog.
637
:And I played out so many
different scenarios.
638
:Is he using him for dog fighting?
639
:Is he, was he hit by a car?
640
:Is he, did he run away?
641
:Like anything that you could imagine?
642
:I've played out that scenario in my mind.
643
:So then that's when I went to
social media and we started with
644
:the reward and we started the
reward with a thousand dollars.
645
:And it ended up going up to 5,000
because we had a lot of people from
646
:Trumbull County who were volunteers
then that had pledged towards, if
647
:we found out what happened to Remi,
that they'd help me pay this reward.
648
:And when I put that up,
it said, where's Remi?
649
:Ask Steffen Baldwin.
650
:And I put his phone number.
651
:I knew that the only way to get a
reaction from Steffen at this point
652
:was social media, because he was still
active on social media all of his time.
653
:He couldn't reply to text message,
he couldn't answer a phone call.
654
:He couldn't set an hour of his day aside
so I go see this dog that we were, you
655
:know, heavily emotionally invested in.
656
:And he, that's, he turned his phone off.
657
:He went completely dark,
he went completely dark.
658
:He turned on off his social media pages,
his phone was completely off for two days.
659
:I get a phone call from
the attorney on Sunday.
660
:And when I saw that she was calling
me on a Sunday, I just started
661
:bawling 'cause I knew it was bad.
662
:And she said, Steffen
wants to have a mediation.
663
:And the first thing was that he wanted me
to sign that I would not talk about it.
664
:And I said, that's not even up for
discussion, that's not gonna happen.
665
:I said, we could just end
this conversation now.
666
:And so she reached back out to him and
he agreed um, to not add those terms.
667
:So we met in a neutral location.
668
:He drove up here and it was me
and my husband and the attorney.
669
:'cause she represented
both rescues and Steffen.
670
:And that's when he gave me his plethora
of lies of what happened with Remi.
671
:DrG: And so you reached out to her?
672
:She was, was she your attorney or what?
673
:Did you reach out to her
because she was his attorney?
674
:Litsa Kargakos: Well, she was the
attorney that helped me get Remi out.
675
:So she had, was
representing No Fear Rescue.
676
:She had done, she had done
our adoption contract.
677
:She had done some different things.
678
:Um, she had done, you know, a will for
us, different, you know, different things.
679
:And then she represented
ACT, I don't know if she ever
680
:represented Steffen personally,
but I know she represented ACT.
681
:So she was just there as,
I guess as a mediator.
682
:And we both signed papers that state,
well actually she forgot the paper,
683
:so we signed email copies that we
were both aware that she wasn't,
684
:you know, that she had represented
the other one at some point.
685
:DrG: Okay.
686
:Like a conflict of interest type?
687
:Yeah.
688
:Paperwork.
689
:So you were expecting kind of the
worst going into this meeting.
690
:You go in and what was his, because you
know, he's just always so smug and he
691
:thinks that he can get away with anything.
692
:So what was.
693
:What did he look like and how did
he receive you when you came in?
694
:Litsa Kargakos: His normal self um,
a little bit more mellow than normal.
695
:He wasn't smiling.
696
:He wasn't his chipper, you
know, his chipper self.
697
:Um, and I think that, going back to
what you just said, or to piggyback
698
:off of what you said, you know, his
normal smug self, I think that's
699
:why he wanted to do the mediation
because he was such a con artist.
700
:He was, he was charming.
701
:He told people what they wanted to hear.
702
:He always made it sound like
whatever your passion was,
703
:that that was his passion too.
704
:And I think that he thought meeting in
person would give him the opportunity
705
:to calm me down because he saw at this
point, I wasn't anything that he had dealt
706
:with in this decade in animal rescue that
they just took Steffen at face value.
707
:DrG: What did he have to say to you?
708
:Or how did the whole thing start?
709
:Litsa Kargakos: Well, when it first
started, I laid an envelope down
710
:on the paper and I had all of these
things that I presume Steffen was
711
:gonna say, and the envelope was
sealed, and I just placed on the table.
712
:I didn't say anything, just
had it placed on the table.
713
:And well, I had it in my purse
at first, and as the conversation
714
:went on, I placed it on the table.
715
:And he told me that Remi was
euthanized because he was involved
716
:in a dog fight, that he killed Zach,
and that Remi had horrific wounds
717
:and that he had to euthanize him.
718
:And he pulls out this piece of paper, and
it wasn't a paper that I ever saw before.
719
:I mean, we've, you know, we've had animals
put down because they've had cancer,
720
:we've had to have animals euthanized.
721
:Our last dog, well Lonnie, passed
away, um, at Akron Emergency, but
722
:before that Zeno, we had a vet come to
the house, so she was 17 and a half.
723
:We wanted her in her own home.
724
:And none of the paperwork ever looked
like anything like this that I had seen.
725
:It was just a list of medications.
726
:And that kind of struck me funny.
727
:He would only show me the
bottom part of this paper.
728
:It had Remi's name and it
had, like I said, medications.
729
:I didn't know what any of that meant.
730
:And he said they were
euthanasia medications.
731
:And again, he said, you know
what a good boy Remi was.
732
:And that somehow he got out of his run and
that he attacked Zach and they got in this
733
:terrible fight and there was no choice but
to euthanize Remi because of the wounds.
734
:DrG: So he tells you this, what,
where does it go from there?
735
:Litsa Kargakos: So I immediately
didn't believe it because again,
736
:I spent four months with Remi.
737
:He never showed any dog
reactivity in my house.
738
:He never showed any at the pound.
739
:In my opinion, the pound brings out and
shelters bring out the worst in a dog.
740
:And if he didn't show any there, I
didn't believe this dog was dog reactive.
741
:So I said to Steffen, I
said, well, where's Zach?
742
:He said, he's cremated on my
shelf, on my bookcase at home.
743
:And I said, well, where's
the cremation record?
744
:And he looked at the attorney, he
said, she didn't tell me to bring that.
745
:And I said to him, she didn't
know I was gonna ask for that.
746
:And not having a long relationship other
than just through rescue things with this
747
:attorney, she didn't know me very well.
748
:I didn't know her, so she had no
way of predicting what kind of
749
:individual I was, what I was gonna
ask for, what I was gonna say.
750
:She had a much deeper relationship
with Steffen at that point.
751
:And I looked at him and
I said, okay, no problem.
752
:I said, it's 3:30.
753
:I said, crematory should be open.
754
:I said, call the crematory.
755
:I said, within 24 hours, there should
be a cremation of Zach from the
756
:time that you claim this happened to
Remi, that you had him euthanized.
757
:And this was the first time
I ever saw the true Steffen.
758
:He literally, his face turned beet
red veins were coming out of his neck.
759
:And if he could have lunged over the
table, I have no doubt that he would've.
760
:And my husband's a bigger guy
and he's sitting next to me.
761
:So you can see it took like every piece
of restraint that Steffen had not to blow
762
:up, and he still tried to sell this to me.
763
:Then that's when I kind of
started, you know, flipping out.
764
:I just start, you know,
throwing things at him.
765
:I don't believe a damn
thing you're saying.
766
:You're a con artist, you're a liar.
767
:You know, Remi did nothing wrong.
768
:And I just went through the whole
thing like Remi was fine here.
769
:He was fine with cats,
he was fine with dogs.
770
:You know, you're a liar.
771
:On and on and on.
772
:And then he stepped like
pushing it and pushing it.
773
:I said, there's nothing that
you can say that can make me
774
:believe a word that you say.
775
:And I actually told him,
I said, you know what?
776
:I said, I'm done with you.
777
:And I said, you can just go.
778
:And he looked at the attorney and we
stayed back with the attorney because we
779
:actually had our will changed because we
had Steffen as the executor of our will
780
:up to that point.
781
:That's how much I trusted this man.
782
:I trusted him with my personal animals.
783
:And like that's another whole
thing of what really settles so
784
:raw was settling so wrong with me.
785
:Like, what if we would've gotten killed?
786
:What if something would've happened
with my husband and I together?
787
:All my animals would probably be dead too.
788
:DrG: That's just horrible.
789
:And yeah, I mean, he met his match
with you because he's just used to
790
:talking, especially he thinks he
can talk to any woman and they're
791
:gonna just like woo over him.
792
:So he, he has the, you know, this
thing that he thinks of himself
793
:and to tell you his bullshit story
and then you don't believe it.
794
:To him, that had to be a huge crush to
his ego, you know, that, that you're
795
:just telling him "That's not it.
796
:Tell me what really happened."
797
:Litsa Kargakos: And I think that's
what caused him to get so angry
798
:because no matter what he put
out, I just wasn't believing it.
799
:And I was just coming back
at him with something else to
800
:question what he was saying.
801
:And I told him that day, I
said, you killed the wrong dog.
802
:And so to see this all play out and
that I got to keep my word with that,
803
:that gives a little bit of comfort.
804
:That Remi didn't die in vain, that
we were able to get justice for him.
805
:But he was just such a conniving
human being, like, I've never met
806
:such a pathological, compulsive liar
that it seemed like lies came out
807
:of his mouth easier than the truth.
808
:Had he just said, you know, Litsa, I
fucked up if Remi would have gotten
809
:in a fight, not for him, euthanizing
him for anything, but that's something
810
:I might've been able to digest.
811
:But him just trying to cover every
single thing up, you know, and the
812
:more they try to cover it up, the
more I saw these red flags and the
813
:more I disbelieved, like, too much of
this story you're trying to paint too
814
:perfect of a picture around this.
815
:Um, so yeah, that's, that was the day
that I saw the real Steffen and my
816
:husband walked out with him, and my
husband said, you do not understand how
817
:bad you have destroyed my wife over this.
818
:Because he was there through the
nightmares and I had nightmares for
819
:months not knowing what happened to Remi.
820
:And Steffen looked at my husband
and he put his hands up and
821
:he's like, please don't hit me.
822
:That was his reaction.
823
:My husband was like, dude,
you're not worth me hitting you.
824
:He's like, you're not
worth me going to jail for.
825
:But it makes you think, what
other sides are there of Steffen,
826
:that that was his first reaction.
827
:And my husband just walked,
you know, right back inside.
828
:He just wanted to tell him that.
829
:And he didn't wanna say it in front
of me, but the fact that he just
830
:went straight to violence, that
started putting up more flags.
831
:Then, you know, what else does this
guy do and who does he do it to?
832
:And then the more we started
digging and the more we started
833
:researching, and then I knew, okay,
834
:he did this to Remi, what am I
gonna do to get justice for Remi?
835
:I've got to do something.
836
:So my goal was to destroy
Steffen in the animal world.
837
:That was my ultimate, ultimate goal.
838
:I did not want him to ever have the
opportunity to harm another animal.
839
:So kept gathering information, put up
posts on, you know, justice for Remi, if
840
:you've had a poor experience with Steffen.
841
:If anything with Steffen.
842
:So I was, started getting messages,
I got messages from a couple
843
:ex-girlfriends, um, started communicating
with them, started communicating
844
:with others whose dogs went missing.
845
:So I was just compiling all of this
information and we found out about
846
:him getting a license for Remi four
months after he killed him to try to
847
:give me, get me to believe the story,
because he had told, he went to the
848
:dog warden's office after I called
the dog warden to get this license.
849
:And she leaves me a message and she's
like, oh, Remi, she got her license.
850
:And I'm thinking to myself, well
that's kind of odd that the dog
851
:warden doesn't even know that a
dangerous dog in her county is a male.
852
:So start putting everything together.
853
:Everything together.
854
:And then a friend of mine who is
heavily involved in animal rescue
855
:and um, different humane agency, she
says, Hey, I have this buddy who's a
856
:cop that maybe he can give you some
pointers with what information you
857
:need to gather, what evidence you need.
858
:And that's how I met Officer
Conroy and he's like, well,
859
:where are you in Trumbull County?
860
:I was like, I'm not in Trumbull County.
861
:I'm in Mahoning and I'm in Campbell.
862
:And he said he was an officer in Campbell.
863
:So I felt like everything aligned,
whether you believe, you know, in God,
864
:Karma, Universe, I felt that that's
when everything started aligning so that
865
:we can go ahead and put a stop to him.
866
:DrG: Yeah, I think that everything
that could have gone right for you
867
:and everything that could have gone
wrong for Steffen happened, right?
868
:Like he, he has the worst karma and he
deserves all the bad things that he gets.
869
:But he just has the worst karma
of anybody that I have ever met.
870
:So
871
:Litsa Kargakos: I you a thousand percent.
872
:DrG: So you're still posting on
Facebook and you're asking people
873
:for any information on anything.
874
:And at that point, had he
given you information of
875
:where he had been euthanized?
876
:Litsa Kargakos: He did not.
877
:He did not.
878
:Again, the paper that he had, he had
it covered, and it was just the bottom.
879
:And so I just kept gathering everything
and I reached out to anybody that I knew
880
:was affiliated with Steffen and it was
like, Hey, you don't wanna believe me?
881
:You don't have to believe me,
but here's proof that he got a
882
:license after the dog was dead.
883
:You know, here's our messages of
him saying the dog's doing good.
884
:I mean, I emailed Bark Box,
I emailed Huffington Post.
885
:Anybody that was affiliated with
him that I saw his name with, I was
886
:emailing them, I was messaging them,
whatever I could, you know, possibly
887
:do so that no other animal would end
up with the same faith that Remi did.
888
:DrG: So for people that don't
know this, I euthanized Remi.
889
:And I have to live with the fact that
I'm the person that euthanized Remi.
890
:And my recollection was of one of the
doc doctors that I worked with sends me
891
:this message saying " There's somebody
on Facebook asking about this dog, and
892
:I think that it's a dog that you may
have seen" because they knew that I
893
:worked with Steffen and at that point we
were not doing a lot of stuff with him.
894
:But, , I see the post and
immediately I know which dog it is.
895
:And
896
:you know, it, it hurts so bad
to know this dog had somebody.
897
:. And that's when I decided to
email you on Facebook, because I
898
:certainly at that point did not
have any kind of loyalty to him.
899
:And that was the first time
that I realized that there was
900
:a problem as far as the animals.
901
:And further into the, into the episodes,
we're gonna talk about my issues
902
:with him, which were more financial
903
:and fraud.
904
:But this is the very first time that
I thought, what's happening here?
905
:Because this is not the
story that that he told me.
906
:And really, I remember
reaching out to you,
907
:Litsa Kargakos: and I really
appreciate that you did, because
908
:it kind of, it gave a little bit of
closure with how he was euthanized.
909
:DrG: And you know.
910
:Just so that people know as far as the,
how far the lies go is he told you about
911
:how he got into this horrible fight.
912
:He got out of the, out of the kennel.
913
:He killed this other dog, and he
had these severe injuries and he had
914
:to be euthanized because of these
injuries and because, uh, of the fight.
915
:And that day, I just remember it so
clearly, like I remember everything about
916
:that day and it's a little bit of personal
stuff and then some things that were
917
:happening at the, at the office that day.
918
:But I remember him coming in the
front door and saying, I have a dog
919
:that is a dangerous dog that just
killed another dog, and I can't
920
:bring him up the front because I'm
afraid that he may hurt another dog.
921
:So I need to come in the back door.
922
:And I said, okay, you know,
we'll meet you in the back.
923
:So he comes in the back
and when he brings the dog,
924
:one of my assistants that was helping
me with surgery that day saw him and
925
:she asked what was happening and I
said, Steffen says that this is a
926
:dangerous dog, and he killed another
dog, so he has to euthanize him.
927
:And my assistant, Ashlie,
actually started crying.
928
:She had to step out from surgery because
she had become invested in Remi's story.
929
:So, you know, it's somebody that had
never met the dog that is really upset
930
:about the fact because she didn't
think that that was gonna be his end.
931
:She thought that this dog was
gonna have a happy life after
932
:everything that happened, you know?
933
:Litsa Kargakos: And even with that
story that he told you, he had to be
934
:euthanized, that was a contract that I
had as the owner with Trumbull County.
935
:That didn't carry over when we
transferred Remi to Steffen.
936
:Even if Remi would've killed a dog, which
I don't believe for a heartbeat he did.
937
:He, he, he was not dog aggressive.
938
:He didn't have to euthanize him.
939
:He still could have gave him back.
940
:And I had given Steffen
an out when he took Remi.
941
:I was very, very specific.
942
:I said, if he's regressing, if he's
not happy, if he doesn't want to
943
:eat, if he's just depressed, call us.
944
:We will be back there that day.
945
:He could have simply picked up
the phone and said, you know
946
:what, Remi seems sad, Litsa.
947
:He just doesn't seem happy here anymore.
948
:I really tried, but I think he
would be happy to come back and we
949
:would've been back there that day.
950
:And that's what makes it so hard too.
951
:And I think this goes back to like
how Remi was the trigger for you
952
:when you found out that how shitty
of a human being Steffen was.
953
:If he did this to a dog, that somebody was
954
:still willing to do anything for,
like, we sent Remi with like probably
955
:four or $500 worth of stuff there.
956
:We sent him with two bags of Origin dog
food, dog treats, Kongs, dog beds, crate
957
:pads, everything that you can imagine.
958
:And I was checking in on him consistently.
959
:What's happening to animals?
960
:What is he doing to these animals that
he's pulling from shelters and that he's
961
:pulling from other rescues that, you
know, might be overwhelmed and don't
962
:have time to check up on their animal?
963
:So how many more dogs are there?
964
:So, not to change the path, but it just
kind of tied into what you were saying.
965
:DrG: No, absolutely.
966
:And you know, he just, he brings this
dog that is such a dangerous dog,
967
:but he brings it in and Remi's just
kind of like scoping the place out.
968
:Like doesn't look scared,
doesn't look aggressive.
969
:Uh, but that said, there are dogs that
react differently in different situations.
970
:And as the humane officer of Union County.
971
:I have no reason to doubt his words
saying "he has a dangerous dog
972
:registration, he killed another
dog, and he has to be euthanized."
973
:So, you know, I believed him.
974
:I wrote everything down and, um, you
know, sedated Remi as we normally
975
:did, and then euthanized him.
976
:So, you know, he, he does that.
977
:And then one of the things that
was happening that day, one of
978
:the, the reasons I remember that
day, is that we had just received
979
:a large piece of equipment.
980
:We had received a CT scan and we didn't
have all the funds to pay for it.
981
:So, you know, this is gonna come a little
bit later as far as how he's saying that
982
:he was so upset and so sad and, you
know, with his girlfriend and all
983
:this stuff, but he didn't skip a beat.
984
:He euthanizes the dog and then starts
talking to me about, "Hey, um, will
985
:I be out of your shit list if I, if I
help you get funds for this CT scanner?"
986
:And starts talking about
other stuff, like, you know,
987
:it's, he, he was not tore up.
988
:He was not upset.
989
:He was
990
:Litsa Kargakos: not the fact
that he just took this life,
991
:DrG: right?
992
:And, and so I also
remember that he went home.
993
:And he made a post on Instagram about, um,
I think it, it was like some picture of
994
:like flowers and tampons and chocolates.
995
:Litsa Kargakos: I remember
that very, very well.
996
:DrG: Yeah.
997
:And then saying about, you know,
like, kind of like the boyfriend kit
998
:for when your girlfriend's having
her period or something like that.
999
:Which, what a douche bag.
:
00:52:09,870 --> 00:52:17,460
Um, but like there was nothing that
day that he was so upset about for
:
00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:22,230
then the reasons that he gave you, why
he couldn't talk to you about it and
:
00:52:22,230 --> 00:52:25,050
why he couldn't say anything about it.
:
00:52:25,710 --> 00:52:26,280
So.
:
00:52:26,685 --> 00:52:31,005
Again, when I see the, the comments
on Facebook and the story that you're
:
00:52:31,005 --> 00:52:35,295
putting on Facebook and what he said,
I felt that it was my responsibility
:
00:52:35,295 --> 00:52:39,735
to reach out to you and let you know
what happened, where it happened,
:
00:52:39,975 --> 00:52:41,325
that I was the one who did it.
:
00:52:41,325 --> 00:52:45,975
So if you had any questions you could ask
and to let you know that he was not tore
:
00:52:45,975 --> 00:52:48,825
up the way that, that Steffen had said.
:
00:52:49,760 --> 00:52:53,620
Litsa Kargakos: And I think that
that played a big key in the fact
:
00:52:53,620 --> 00:52:59,710
that when I did go to Officer Conroy,
being able to say, we know a hundred
:
00:52:59,710 --> 00:53:01,600
percent that this is not true.
:
00:53:02,470 --> 00:53:06,850
So I think it definitely, 'cause I'm
not gonna lie, not knowing you, not
:
00:53:06,850 --> 00:53:10,570
knowing that you were the vet that
did it, presuming that it was you,
:
00:53:10,570 --> 00:53:14,470
only because of the fact that you
saw, you know, a lot of affiliated
:
00:53:14,470 --> 00:53:16,660
posts that he would mention you in.
:
00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:18,580
I hated you.
:
00:53:19,510 --> 00:53:21,910
I'm like, okay, why did she kill this dog?
:
00:53:22,810 --> 00:53:27,985
And especially once I had asked, you
know, where Zach's cremation records were.
:
00:53:28,765 --> 00:53:33,625
So, but then you telling me, you
know, you didn't question it.
:
00:53:33,625 --> 00:53:35,095
'cause he is the humane agent.
:
00:53:36,025 --> 00:53:38,215
I realized we were in the
same boat at that point.
:
00:53:39,445 --> 00:53:39,835
DrG: Yeah.
:
00:53:39,835 --> 00:53:46,495
It's, um, the, there was a, a reporter
from the Vindicator that I spoke with
:
00:53:46,675 --> 00:53:51,065
last week and he said, you know, we
have a friendship now that started
:
00:53:51,065 --> 00:53:52,235
with something pretty horrible.
:
00:53:52,955 --> 00:53:53,315
Right.
:
00:53:54,005 --> 00:54:01,025
Um, and I don't know, I, when, when
I reached out to you, I expected
:
00:54:01,025 --> 00:54:04,835
you to be mad because you sounded
so angry in all of your posts.
:
00:54:04,895 --> 00:54:05,255
Right.
:
00:54:05,255 --> 00:54:11,735
And, and everything was very aggressive
and very, you know, like I'm seeking
:
00:54:11,735 --> 00:54:14,555
justice and I was part of that.
:
00:54:14,915 --> 00:54:17,885
So I felt, you know,
she's gonna be mad at me.
:
00:54:18,035 --> 00:54:20,575
But different to Steffen,
:
00:54:21,230 --> 00:54:24,710
I'm somebody that I wanna be upfront
and honest with what's happening.
:
00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:25,310
Right.
:
00:54:25,370 --> 00:54:30,410
And, and I'll take, and I'll take
what I, what I need to get, you know.
:
00:54:30,410 --> 00:54:33,710
If I make a mistake, I'll own
it and, and go from there.
:
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:37,580
Uh, which is something
that he definitely did not.
:
00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:45,950
Um, but, but yeah, I mean, from, from
there I know that then Detective Conroy
:
00:54:45,950 --> 00:54:51,530
started looking into me, um, just thinking
that I was involved because, I mean,
:
00:54:51,530 --> 00:54:57,470
we worked so closely together that he
thought that, you know, we were partners.
:
00:54:57,570 --> 00:54:57,900
Litsa Kargakos: Yeah.
:
00:54:57,960 --> 00:55:01,770
He, once everything started coming out
as Steffen, I think anybody who was
:
00:55:01,770 --> 00:55:07,140
closely affiliated with Steffen kind of
had a spotlight on them and scrutiny.
:
00:55:07,500 --> 00:55:10,830
Whether they were or weren't doing things
wrong because it was like, okay, how
:
00:55:10,830 --> 00:55:12,750
can somebody work so closely with him?
:
00:55:12,930 --> 00:55:15,840
How can somebody be part of his
life, whether you know, a personal
:
00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:20,100
aspect or a business aspect
and not see these red flags?
:
00:55:20,820 --> 00:55:25,080
And then when you did reach out and, you
know, the more that we got to talk, the
:
00:55:25,080 --> 00:55:27,360
more the resentment with you diminished.
:
00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:33,630
Because I understand why you did
it based on what he told you.
:
00:55:34,050 --> 00:55:38,760
I know if we could fast forward or you
had a crystal ball and you knew the
:
00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:43,470
other side, or you had seen the posts of
Remi, I have no doubt that you would've
:
00:55:43,470 --> 00:55:45,150
reached out, you know, beforehand.
:
00:55:46,220 --> 00:55:47,210
DrG: Oh, absolutely.
:
00:55:47,210 --> 00:55:53,840
Because, you know, it's, I, I am a big
believer that euthanasia is something
:
00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:55,850
that we do compassionately for animals.
:
00:55:56,150 --> 00:56:02,345
Because animals, whether they're,
they have poor physical health
:
00:56:02,405 --> 00:56:07,085
or poor mental health, sometimes
they're, they're sadly so broken
:
00:56:07,145 --> 00:56:09,785
that euthanasia is the last resort.
:
00:56:10,535 --> 00:56:16,685
But when there's an animal that doesn't
need to be euthanized and somebody
:
00:56:16,685 --> 00:56:20,765
gives me a lie to euthanize that animal,
I'm being used almost as a weapon.
:
00:56:21,185 --> 00:56:21,575
Right.
:
00:56:22,325 --> 00:56:22,655
Litsa Kargakos: Thousand percent.
:
00:56:22,705 --> 00:56:28,155
DrG: And that's really upset me
about the whole thing, was the fact
:
00:56:28,155 --> 00:56:33,345
that he used me to get, get his way.
:
00:56:33,795 --> 00:56:38,715
You know, he had no, he had
no cares or empathy for you.
:
00:56:39,075 --> 00:56:42,105
He had no care or empathy
for me in this whole thing.
:
00:56:42,585 --> 00:56:47,385
He's just, this dog's in my way and
I'm going to get rid of it and then
:
00:56:47,385 --> 00:56:52,635
just pitch whatever lies I can say,
because that's just the way he, he was
:
00:56:52,635 --> 00:56:54,015
used to getting away with everything.
:
00:56:55,035 --> 00:56:58,575
Litsa Kargakos: When he had a goal or he
had his mindset, he'd run over anything
:
00:56:58,665 --> 00:57:00,645
or anybody in between getting him there.
:
00:57:01,785 --> 00:57:08,925
DrG: That gets started you with
Detective Conroy and at what point does
:
00:57:08,925 --> 00:57:12,495
he figure that there's more to the story?
:
00:57:13,775 --> 00:57:15,965
Litsa Kargakos: Well, once I had
put up the post and I asked for
:
00:57:15,965 --> 00:57:19,775
information, I went to him with, I
don't know, hundreds, maybe thousands
:
00:57:19,775 --> 00:57:24,845
of pieces of information and printouts,
and he started reading through it.
:
00:57:25,295 --> 00:57:30,395
And I think that he realized that the
case was much bigger than just me.
:
00:57:30,965 --> 00:57:35,195
And he was very, detective Conroy
did not share a lot of information
:
00:57:35,195 --> 00:57:38,045
throughout the process, and there were
times that I got frustrated with him.
:
00:57:38,585 --> 00:57:41,025
Because I'm like, why aren't we
just pressing charges for Remi?
:
00:57:41,045 --> 00:57:42,935
Like, why is he not
being held accountable?
:
00:57:42,935 --> 00:57:48,395
And we had a different attorney at that
point, um, that wasn't the one that
:
00:57:48,395 --> 00:57:49,755
was affiliated with me and Steffen.
:
00:57:49,755 --> 00:57:55,025
We had a personal attorney and he
wanted to go ahead and he said,
:
00:57:55,025 --> 00:57:56,465
"Hey, we definitely have a case here.
:
00:57:56,465 --> 00:58:00,725
Let's go after him civilly, let you
know Officer Conroy, go ahead and
:
00:58:00,965 --> 00:58:03,695
press, you know, the criminal charges,
whatever he could get with that."
:
00:58:04,415 --> 00:58:07,595
And I never wanted to go after
Steffen financially because
:
00:58:07,595 --> 00:58:08,885
it was never the money for me.
:
00:58:09,245 --> 00:58:14,085
It was, I never wanted anybody to
think that I was bashing Steffen
:
00:58:14,105 --> 00:58:15,515
because I wanted this money back.
:
00:58:15,515 --> 00:58:22,355
We had probably $4,000 invested
in Remi at this point, and it was
:
00:58:22,355 --> 00:58:24,185
never, it was never financial.
:
00:58:24,395 --> 00:58:27,815
I never wanted a price tag associated.
:
00:58:27,815 --> 00:58:31,115
When we had that mediation, I
guess going back, he offered to
:
00:58:31,115 --> 00:58:32,985
reimburse me everything for Remi.
:
00:58:33,530 --> 00:58:36,140
I said, you can't put a price on his life.
:
00:58:36,170 --> 00:58:39,890
Like I, if anything, I got even more
offended that he thought that that
:
00:58:39,890 --> 00:58:41,600
was gonna make his problem go away.
:
00:58:42,110 --> 00:58:45,620
And so I knew that we had a case
based on what the attorney said.
:
00:58:45,620 --> 00:58:47,240
The attorney had talked to Jim.
:
00:58:47,810 --> 00:58:50,240
Um, it's a very small community.
:
00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:54,530
The attorney was in Struthers,
but he actually used to be, um,
:
00:58:54,530 --> 00:58:56,210
work for the city of Campbell too.
:
00:58:56,240 --> 00:58:58,290
He used to actually be the
chief of police in Campbell.
:
00:58:58,310 --> 00:59:03,740
So he knew Officer Conroy, and he knew
that, you know, there was a case 'cause
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he was the chief of police before.
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So he knew we had a case.
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And like I said, I got frustrated
with Conroy though, man, 'cause he
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wouldn't like give any, he is very,
everything's monotone with him and
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it's very hard to get a read on him.
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So you didn't know if
things were going good.
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You didn't know if things are going bad.
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The responses that I'd usually get from
him are just be patient, it's coming.
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Just be patient.
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Something's gonna come with this.
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It was, I had no idea until grand jury,
like how serious everything was and
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they start going through the counts.
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And then you and I, you and I had
spoken briefly at the courthouse
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that day and that was like the real
moment that I started realizing
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how much shit he must have done.
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DrG: Yeah.
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It's, it would, I don't think that he
ever, in his wildest dreams imagined how
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much stuff he was going to find and you
know, how many charges were gonna end
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up being, being raised against Steffen.
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So, you know, that's what we're going
to be discussing in future episodes.
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We're gonna take the, this podcast
series and we are going to go
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through the whole investigation from
everything that Detective Conroy found.
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How little by little by little he built
a case over what did he take him for?
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About four years to actually put this
case together and how it's, in my
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opinion, one of the most important
animal cruelty cases as far as the
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legal system works here in Ohio.
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On our next episode, the Rabbit Hole,
we are going to start discussing with
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Officer Jim Conroy, how he started this
investigation and where it took him to.
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So make sure to listen and as
always, thank you for listening
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and thank you for caring.